For the Journey


Any day spent with you is my favorite day. So today is my new favorite day. ~A.A. Milne

"You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths drip with abundance." ~Psalm 65:11

The next morning after Avery's wedding, we drove to Oklahoma.  I have two special memories tied to the state, even though I'd never been there.  My childhood penpal lives in Oklahoma.  We started writing letters back and forth when we were in elementary school and kept up until we both graduated high school.  We later reconnected on social media.  Although we've still not yet met in person, Kori is a dear friend.  The other is Rodgers and Hammerstein's musical, Oklahoma!  I have no idea how many times we watched it in Sara Beth's choir class over the years of middle and high school, but it was a lot!

Since we crossed a new-to-us state line, we had to stop at the welcome sign for a picture.  They are thrilled every time we do this.  Can't you tell?!


We spent the rest of the afternoon and evening exploring Oklahoma City.  Our first stop was at OKC Riversport.  It's an outdoor adventure park with adventure courses, zip lines, kayaking and a man-made white water rafting experience.  I'd never seen anything like it before.  We did the white water rafting, and everyone really enjoyed it.

We went to the Skydance Pedestrian Bridge.  The design was inspired by Oklahoma's state bird, the scissor-tailed fly catcher.  There was also a pretty park in the area with nice views of the city skyline.




Our next stop was the infamous OKC sign and the Wheeler Ferris Wheel.  The Ferris wheel used to be located at the Santa Monica Pier before it was moved to Oklahoma City.  When in Santa Monica, it was featured in many movies, including "Titanic" and "Forrest Gump."

We were super tired by the end of the day so we went to the Brockton District to eat supper before going to our hotel.  Speaking of a hotel, this girl lives her best life in hotels!
The next morning, we visited the Oklahoma City National Memorial before leaving the city.  I very clearly remember the Oklahoma City bombing in 1995.  It's my first clear memory of the horror of domestic terrorism.  The memorial is stunning!  It is absolutely beautiful, but it's also very somber.  It reminded me of my experience a few years ago at the 9/11 Memorial.  I really enjoyed our time here.
There are twin bronze gates leading into the memorial grounds.  The gates are time-stamped with the last minute of peace, the first minute of destruction and the first moments of recovery.  The inscription reads, "We come here to remember those who were killed, those who survived and those changed forever.  May all who leave here know the impact of violence.  May this memorial offer comfort, strength, peace, hope and serenity."



The Field of Empty Chairs is definitely the most sobering part of the park.  There are 168 empty chairs crafted of glass, bronze and stone.  Each one represents a life lost that day, and each name is etched in the glass.  The chairs are arranged in nine rows to symbolize the nine floors of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building, and each person's chair is on the row/floor they were on when the bomb exploded.  There are 19 chairs that are smaller than all the rest.  Those were the children.
If you look very carefully, you can see several men on their knees.  They are carefully trimming the grass by hand around the base of each chair.  We watched them for several minutes.  I couldn't help but wonder how often they do this.



When in Oklahoma, a stop in Pawhuska is a must!  It's a good thing Pioneer Woman put this tiny town on the map.  Otherwise, it wouldn't be.  We didn't realize until we passed it that we were at her place.  So, of course, I made Seth turn around and go back for a picture.
And, of course, we spent some time at The Mercantile.

The kids each picked out a treat from the bakery.  And I had the most insanely delicious coffee drink of my dreams!  The Spicy Cowgirl!

We then headed on into Kansas.  There was no big welcome sign to take a picture in front of.  As a matter of fact, nothing told us we were even in Kansas.  We were on a two lane road in the absolute middle of nowhere with fields and fields and far as the eye could see.  Our next stop was Kansas City.  We made sure to spend the night on the Kansas side so would could put a pin in our map!  And, of course, when in Kansas City . . .
I found a salad.  And it was delicious!  I also tried their version of Brunswick stew.  Let's just say it wasn't the Brunswick stew that I know.  It was more along the lines of a beef stew.
This was Hannah Kate's BBQ Mac n cheese.
The next morning we stopped by the Kansas City Public Library.  I found this little gem online, and it was a must-see for Hannah Kate and me.  The side of the building is painted like a bookshelf!  The book spines represent 22 titles that were suggested by book lovers in Kansas City and chosen by the Kansas City Library Board of Trustees.  The kids enjoyed identifying which titles they'd read and were familiar with.






We left Kansas City and crossed over into Iowa, another new-to-us state.  This was the best we could do for a welcome sign.
We stopped in Des Moines and toured the state capitol building.  We love us a good state capitol building.  The gold dome on this one reminded me of the dome on the Georgia state capitol building.

The was the view looking out over the city from the front steps of the capitol building.
Our favorite part of the building was the . . . wait for it . . . library!
I had to explain to Ellie what a card catalog is and how to find books with the cards.  I'm afraid this has become a lost art these days.  Everything is digital.
The card catalog is special.  But what makes this library so amazing is the spiral staircase!  It's gorgeous!

This one loved it the most.  I'm certain she felt like Belle in "Beauty and the Beast!"

After our visit to the capitol, we started driving again.  We saw a lot of this.  For miles and miles and miles.

We finally had a change of scenery as we approached our next stop . . .