For the Journey


Any day spent with you is my favorite day. So today is my new favorite day. ~A.A. Milne

"You crown the year with Your goodness, and Your paths drip with abundance." ~Psalm 65:11
This kid has always been an Allstar in my book.  But, this summer it's written on his uniform.
We finally agreed to let Mason participate on the Allstar team this summer.  It wasn't the first year he'd been asked.  It was just the first year we agreed.  A few weeks ago we ran into a ball mom at the grocery store.  Her son and Mason played together three years ago.  We were catching up a bit, and she asked Mason if he was still playing ball.  When he told her he was playing Allstars, she just looked at me and grinned and said, "So you finally let him do it!"

Because basically Allstars means you do nothing during the entire month of June except play baseball.  Nothing.  We had tournaments the first three weekends of the month, practices three days a week and another tournament this week.  As Seth said a few days ago, we have all learned to love ball this summer whether we wanted to or not.  Who am I kidding . . . we all know he was talking to only one of us in particular.

We don't play travel ball or fall ball.  We've only ever played rec ball.  And we are fine with that.  When Mason played t-ball, I honestly didn't expect it to last.  I didn't expect him to still be playing rec ball in middle school.  I don't know why.  No reason in particular, I guess.  He enjoyed it enough.  He never was the best player on the team and probably not even really a good player.  I think he mostly liked dressing in the uniform and being part of a team.  And then came 3rd grade.  That was the year that we spent so much time in private therapy for speech and reading remediation that we didn't have time for him to play ball.  I remember the day I told him that he wouldn't be able to play ball that spring because the game days were the same days as therapy.  He just shrugged and said, "Okay."  And then he walked away with his head down.  But that was it.  He never mentioned it again, never complained.  So we moved on.  Or so I thought.

The following spring, he begged to play.  He had graduated therapy that fall.  So not only did he wear a uniform again, but we also changed leagues.  He played in the outfield that year.  He batted at the bottom of the order.  And he was happy as a lark.  That was the first year that things began to get a bit more competitive.  There were some kids on that field who really could play some ball.  So the next year rolls around, and Mason's coach puts him on first base.  What?!  I seriously didn't think he was cut out for that, but I learned a thing or two that year.  Mason finally found his spot in the defense.  He learned how to play first base, and he did a really good job.  He still had a lot of work to do at the plate, but that was the first year it seemed like he was really playing ball.  It really was a great season.

We hear ball field horror stories all the time.  But we've really not experienced any to that extreme.  We've had some good seasons.  And then we had a season that wasn't necessarily a horror, but it wasn't good either.  It was a season in which we all learned a lot about things other than ball, Mason especially.  It was also a season that really had me not looking forward to this one.

I entered this season with a lot of trepidation.  But Mason was back on first base again this year, and he pretty much owned it.  His bat improved, too.  His coaches made it fun.

Fun.

That's been the buzz word this season.  I didn't play team sports growing up.  There are a lot of reasons for that.  First of all, I couldn't hit a basketball with a bat, much less a smaller ball.  Second of all, I am the least athletic person you will ever meet.  And third of all, sports are not my thing.  I do not like to sweat.  At all.  I do not like to be hot, and I do not like hot weather unless I am in the pool or on the lake.  I also do not like to get dirty.  At all.  My mom said just last week that when I was a kid, I could play outside all day without getting dirty.  I played the piano instead.  And I read books.  Sometimes even outside!  So because I didn't play team sports and totally wasn't interested in playing them, I think there are a lot of things I don't understand about playing sports and that mentality.

At the beginning of the season, Seth and I and our friends had a lively conversation at the ballpark.  I posed the question, "Would you rather play and lose every game?  Or would you rather not play at all?"  For me, the answer is obvious.  I do NOT want to play and lose every game.  I mean, what in the world kind of fun is that?!  We've had seasons where we won every game.  We also had a season where we lost every game.  And it. was. not. fun. At. all.  I prefer a happy medium . . . winning some and losing some.  I don't know . . . maybe I'm just a poor loser.  But I just don't think there's anything fun about losing every game.  No thanks.  Let's just say I was the ONLY one who held that opinion that evening.  And when we lost a game this season, I'd remind them how FUN it was.

Anyway, it was a good season.  I missed the final game because I was, like, triple booked that night so Seth captured these pictures.  And that reminds me.  You know what else I can't deal with?  My son on the mound.  I mean, he's a first baseman!  But, somehow, he ended up on the mound during the last game.  He's a lefty so everyone really wants him to pitch.  But it makes me so nervous, and I don't think I breathe the entire time.  Thankfully, those times have been few and far between.
If you look in front of the light post, you can actually see the ball Mason hit.  Somehow Seth caught this shot perfectly.
But Mason doesn't stay on first base for very long.  His goal in life is to steal bases.  All of them.  Even home plate.  Yep, he tried that last weekend.  Let's just say he won't be trying that one again.
Mason's regular season team was the Drillers.  His coaches are pretty awesome.  Their own sons do not even play ball, but they have coached for years.  It amazes me how much time they spend at the fields, how much they love the game and how much they love the kids.

So, yeah, we decided to let the FUN continue and committed to the Allstar team.  Boys from two different teams were chosen, and they immediately began practicing together as a new team at the close of the regular season.  Some had played together, some had not.  Some had played against each other.  I think the thing they had to work the hardest on was coming together and bonding as a team.  

Mason also had quite a learning curve and a very short amount of time in which to learn.  He's been playing mostly left field as an Allstar.  They needed an outfielder who could run and get to the ball quickly so Mason's long legs and his speed (when he feels like it) landed him in the outfield.  He also had to learn signs while at bat and on base.  And, not only that, he had to learn to obey those signs regardless of what he wants to do (like steal a base or two).  Let's just say we're still working on that.  The practices have been much longer and harder than he's used to.  It's been a very disciplined way of playing ball and being part of a team, and I think it's really been such a great experience for him.  He has learned a tremendous amount this season and has really continued to improve as a player.

Our first Allstar tournament of the season was interesting.  We learned that we would have to be very creative with "outside drinks and food," and a canopy was a must.  The following week I promptly went to the Academy and purchased a canopy, and we do not leave home without it!  We also learned what it was like to spend all day at the ballpark in 100 degree temps.  Have I mentioned I do not like to sweat?  And Florida water.  Have you ever heard of Florida water?  Because I had not until this season (you purchase it at the drugstore), and that's definitely been the buzz word.  If it's not already in the dictionary, well, I think it should be added next year.  Don't google it though.  Because google doesn't understand that it's used to quickly cool you down if you get too hot (you don't drink it).  Just take my word for it.  (But I'm beginning to wonder if this is just a Louisiana thing?)

We played three games that first weekend.  I was so proud of Mason.  He hit a triple his very first at bat in the first game and got two RBIs.    
During the second game, he bunted a run home.  He also ended up on the mound to close out the game and struck out two batters!
He played both left and center fields during the third game.  He walked his first time at the plate and hit a double the second time.
That first tournament was a "warm-up" for the state tournament and such a great opportunity for the boys to really come together as a team.
The next weekend, Seth, Mason and I headed out of town for the state tournament.  Just the three of us.  Hannah Kate was still at church camp, and Ellie stayed with Seth's parents since they would eventually pick Hannah Kate up as well.  I must say I really enjoyed the weekend with just the three of us.  It was such a rare opportunity to spend time with just my boy.  It was he and me for two and a half years.  I've missed that time.  So it really was a great weekend.  At the ballpark.  
We ended up playing four games in the state tournament.  The boys were definitely ready to go.
Mason bunted a lot throughout the weekend and had a couple of RBIs.  He also hit a single in the second game.
The kids played hard.  They had the opportunity to play two teams that had beaten them the previous weekend.  They tied with one of them and then beat the other one.
These two boys have been playing ball together since the days of coach's pitch.  And when we decided to change leagues, Braden did, too.  It's been such a joy to see them in these uniforms this season.
Something else I've enjoyed is seeing his name on the back of his jersey.  We've never paid extra during the regular season to have his name put on there.
Mason bunts a lot because his speed can usually get him safely to first base.  And, if there's a runner in scoring position, that runner advances, too.
We ended up placing third at the state tournament, which I thought was a tremendous accomplishment.  I mean, I don't think I was expecting that at all.  They were awarded medals and that blue bat.  And, in case you're wondering, they're making a "W" with their fingers (for Westside).
The local newspaper wrote an article about the team and their third place at the state championship tournament that you can read here
Last weekend was the Father's Day Classic tournament.  It was sponsored by our league and hosted at our park.  And guess who even worked the gate for almost four hours to support her son's team?  Yep.  I've always said I am NOT a good baseball mom.  Have I mentioned I don't like to sweat?  Or get dirty?  I mean, every single game we're either sitting on the first base or third base line.  And every single time those boys go running or sliding to the base, dust flies . . . straight into my mouth and everywhere else.  I feel like my throat has been coated in a layer of baseball dust for two months now, and I can't drink enough water.  Last weekend I kept wipes in my bag so I could at least wipe down my arms, legs and face.  Yes.  Yes, I did.  But I also worked the gate.

One of the boys' moms took some pictures for us last weekend.  Because she clearly knows what she's doing!  She got some good ones of Mason.  I've never really paid a whole lot of attention to his facial expressions while at bat.  But this cracked me up. 
I love this shot.

This one is my absolute favorite!
The highlight of last weekend was when Mason walked.  But, instead of "walking" to first base when the fourth ball was called, he took off running.  And he didn't stop at first base.  He went on around to second base.  By the time the opposing team realized what he was doing, it was too late, and he was safe.  Seth later asked him if his coach told him to do that.  Of course he didn't!

And, now, just for kicks . . . here's how Allstar teams practice. 
I believe this is what is known as trash ball.  Skins versus shirts.
And every practice ends with them laying across the field.
And then there's this.  The Monday after a ball tournament washing of the uniforms.  De-Solv-it is my very best friend.
We're now headed to the World Series in Gulfport, and this will be our final tournament.  I mean, I don't even know what we're going to do once it's over.  Our entire lives have been focused and planned around practices and games for nearly three months now and this month especially.  It really has been a great experience for all of us, I think.  We have so many fun memories, new friends.  I've enjoyed getting outside of my box a bit (even though it's been dirtier and sweatier and a whole lot hotter than I'd like).

(Oh, and I should mention that about six or so weeks ago, Ellie informed me that she liked Mason playing baseball.  When I asked her why, she said, "I like their pants."  She is FIVE YEARS OLD.  What in the world does she know about baseball pants, anyway?!  I let it go.  Let. it. go.  I mean, what am I going to do with her?!)